SPIRAL DATING - One Man or many?

THIS ARTICLE IN A NUTSHELL:
Embracing the Shakti journey in life and love invites you to be FULLY YOU.

To be full-heartedly engaged yet effortlessly detached; to remain open, fluid, and liberated, allowing your TRUEST ESSENCE AS A WOMAN to beautifully unfold.

This practice isn't about relentlessly pursuing your own agenda at all costs but rather about surrendering to what the Universe lovingly envisages for you

It’s about harmoniously blending your life's endeavors with a divine, inspired purpose

Spiral Dating is your secret to constantly manifesting your inner Shakti energy, whether you're single, exploring the dating scene, deeply committed, or in the bonds of marriage. IT’S ABOUT KEEPING YOUR DIVINE FEMININE ESSENCE alive and vibrant, no matter where you are on your journey of love.

Let’s start …

In Tantra, a woman is the embodiment of nature's untamed essence, a SYMPHONY OF FREEDOM, SPONTANEITY, and VIBRANT LIFE.

If you are like most women on a spiritual path, the cultivation of deep, CONSCIOUS CONNECTIONS is a necessary ingredient to create a meaningful life. And especially the relationship with the man you love - and wish to share your journey with - plays an essential part for your heart to be fulfilled.

And as we are here to explore life from a spiritual point of view, let's approach this topic of love and relationships from a new perspective.

Navigating the intricate dance of intimacy and independence with GRACE and EMPOWERMENT is a challenge. 

Our love relationships often take up a lot of space (energy, time, attention) in our lives and are at the same time a source of great happiness and fulfillment, but also of attachment and sometimes even suffering.

And it DOESN’T HAVE to be like that. You don’t have to suffer.

The tool I use for this is called SPIRAL DATING. It guides you through the complex terrain of dating, finding, and sustaining a conscious and spiritual relationship, while lovingly maintaining your freedom and spiritual journey.

Spiral Dating serves You as a graceful expression of YOUR FEMININE ESSENCE and helps you to unfold YOUR HIGHEST POTENTIAL.

SPIRAL DATING: THE PRACTICE

Let’s first define the terms of “Spiral Dating” and (for simplicity and better understanding - we also introduce the opposite term) “Clam Being”.

Note: A clam is this small sea creature spending most of their lives halfway buried in the sand of the seafloor or riverbeds, where it nourishes and protects its treasure, the pearl that matures inside it.

“Spiral Dating” - is  aliveness and being an open system, having an energy of curiosity, flirting with life, being open, present and available … smiling to the man at the grocery store, the woman next to you in the U-Bahn, the postman etc. 

“Clam Being” - is moving through life in a shell. It is having a degree of separation and a single oriented focus rather than an openness to the world around you. When it comes to man and relationships it is narrowing down your focus to one man and one relationship. It means your awareness and energy is on the one man (you like/love the most) most of the time - affectionately, romantically and erotically. 

It often comes together with “exclusivity” suggesting that both partners agree to only be romantically and sexually involved with each other and not with anyone else. 

But here I want to refer to “Clam Being” in a more general energetic way. It's a way of being, as we can observe distinct differences between a woman who embraces openness (Spiral Dating) and one who prefers a more reserved approach (Clam Being).

Important Note: You can also be erotically exclusive with one man and still be Spiral Dating. 

As a woman on a spiritual path based on authentic spiritual values like LOVE, SACRIFICE and HUMILITY you can understand the concept of SPIRAL DATING as YOUR PERSONAL TRANSFORMATIVE PRACTICE - enabling you to cultivate profound connections with men in a way that heightens the essence of erotic energy and nourishess your personal spiritual empowerment.

THIS IS HOW SPIRAL DATING LOOKS LIKE PRACTICALLY

When you are Single: Date at least three men, be open and curious, treat them all equal until one is committing to the relationship you envision for yourself and it feels good.

When you are married or in a closed relationship: Keep your energy open and date the cashier at the grocery store, the woman on the market selling you flowers, the children you meet on the street, smile at the postman. Keep your energy alive, open and vibrant.

When you are in an open relationship: Date as many men as you feel comfortable with and foster the particular, beautiful, nourishing aspects of the specific relationship and let them nourish each other.
Important note: The essence of Spiral Dating transcends mere interaction with potential partners.It helps you to keep YOUR HEART and SPIRIT OPEN, engaging with the world with presence and acceptance. 

It’s about being and feeling open to your surroundings: from the people that pass by you on the street to the individuals you invite into your intimate circle. 

When you practice Spiral Dating it will help you empowering your VIBRANCY and INNER STRENGTH … regardless if you’re dating or in a committed relationship - and this will change YOUR VIBE and the dynamics in your relationship(s) with your man/men - he/they will feel compelled to pursue you, strengthen your bond and go deeper in your connection.

Spiral Dating also applies to the non-romantic areas of your life. So, especially if it’s difficult for you in the beginning to open up to the idea of dating people. You can start with this:

Start practicing something you always wanted to explore, this can look like: discover a new hobby, try new things, be brave, work stuff out, experiment with new language and truth telling.

SPIRAL DATING AND YOUR SHAKTI-STATE 

Spiral Dating is like holding a PRISM TO YOUR LIGHT and your personal journey, revealing the rich spectrum of your inner world and letting it shine over everyone who gets in touch with beautiful, wonderful YOU.

This tool is about letting yourself and everyone around you be filled with light, warmth, and the colors of your beautiful soul.

When you spiral date you naturally EMBRACE YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO YOURSELF, to dive deep into the depths of what truly matters to you, and acknowledge the beautiful complexity of WHO YOU ARE.

The essence of Spiral Dating remains — a journey of self-discovery, an adventure that expands your horizons and enriches your understanding of love and life. It's a process of becoming, of meeting the unknown with courage and openness, and weaving the mosaic of your experiences into the very artwork of your being.

Spiral Dating is about attracting and choosing the relationship(s) that serve you on your spiritual journey instead of wasting your time or helps you to transform the relationship you have into the relationship you want. It opens you up and increases your choices.

Practicing spiral dating will help you to feel fulfilled and magnetic and BE IN YOUR Best SHAKTI STATE.

SPIRAL DATING AND LOVE-MAKING - PART I

Love-making is so much more than a mere physical union - especially when you’ve decided that you want to ENGAGE INTO THE AMOROUS INTERACTION IN A SPIRITUAL WAY …  it's a sacred exchange, a moment where your soul touches the soul of the man and where you share your heart, your essence and also your vulnerabilities with him. 

It invites you and your man into a profound exploration of your heart and his. 

And this closeness can stir up things - having emotional, psychological and spiritual echoes. For both of you.

For practicality I splitted this article in two parts. The first elaborating mainly on the general concept of Spiral Dating, the second dealing with the WISE NAVIGATION THROUGH PHYSICAL INTIMACY in particular (with the help of Spiral Dating).

This path (of combining Spiral Dating and physical intimacy) encourages you to craft your own sacred guidelines for love-making, not as rules imposed from the outside, but as expressions of your deepest truths and FUNDAMENTAL NEEDS. 

It's about listening to the lessons of your own experiences and YOUR SOUL, letting them guide you to what feels right and true for you, beyond societal norms or superficial desires.

So please if you like this article, also check out Part II of SPIRAL DATING where I share secrets about how and when to engage into erotic intimacy in order to BE OPEN and BLOSSOMING as the UNIQUE, BEAUTIFUL WOMAN that you are.

With Love,
Brynhilda